....love n live...

Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love,

we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us.

We miss out on so many beautiful things

and simply because we allow ourselves

to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns.



Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words

for you will find rewarding happiness

not with the man you love but the man whom loves you more.



The best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance,

far enough to allow the other person to grow

but never too far to feel the love deep within your being.



To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving,

it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness

without expecting him to come back.

Letting go is not just setting the other person free,

but it is also setting yourself free from bitterness, hatred and anger

that you keep in your heart.

Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength and weaken your faith,

and never allow pain to dishearten you

but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing it.



You may have found peace in just loving someone

from a distance not expecting in return.

But be careful, for this can sustain life

but can never give enough room for us to grow.

We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past

but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance

of what reality is today.



There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone

so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves

getting so intensely attracted to that person.

This feeling soon become a part of our everyday lives

and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions.

The sad part of it is when we begin to realize

that this person feels nothing more for us than just friendship.

We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer

but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded

and we end up being sorry for ourselves.



You don't have to forget someone you love.

What you need is how to accept the verdict of reality

without being bitter or sorry for yourself.

Believe me, you would be better off

giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving.

Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible

and let your mind speak for itself.

Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well.



Always remember that if you lose someone today,

it means that someone better is coming tomorrow:

if you loose love that doesn't mean that you failed in love.

Cry, if you have to, but make it sure that the past has left with you.

Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you

and when it does, pray that it may be

the love that will stay and last a lifetime.



[nih ju cut n paste from other people blog,,,muahahah!=P]